"Sometimes the things that may or may not be true are the things that a man has to believe in most...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXn5-r8mj-s

I did not do Robert Duval justice in my last post. He gives wise old uncle advice that's worth checking out.

"Sometimes the things that may or may not be true are the things that a man has to believe in most. That people are basically good That honor, courage and virtue mean everything. That power and money money and power means nothing. That good always triumphs over evil. And I want you to remember this that love, true love never dies. Remember that boy. You remember that whether they are true or not a man should believe in those things because those are the things believing in."

Second Hand Lions 
By Frederic and Mary Ann Brussat