Wednesday, December 28, 2011

The 1953 National Champion University of Maryland Terrapins


Scot A. posted this on my wall in Facebook.
My Dad was #44 fourth from right, second from the top. It was his Senior year and he always did say he was pretty small for every position he ever played. Standing behind that giant #77 kind of brings the point home. He looks fierce. He doesn't look anything like I remember him. It is definitely his Marine face expression but on a much different face. The guy in the picture looks like a handsome tough guy. That guy isn't my big jovial dumb dumb daddy-o. That guy is a champion!

Sometime early in his career at Maryland he had taken a knee to the top of his helmet and it shattered most of his teeth. He said he spent everything he had on the gold the Dentist students at U of M installed for free as a bridge and fake teeth. He said he spent months in the dentist chair. He said he didn't miss a game or a practice. He said it was only a mouthful of shattered teeth.

Maybe this was the source of one of his daddyoism, "It only hurts when I breathe!" When I would get hurt or injured and I did that a lot. He'd say something like, "Come on, you'll be fine, it will only hurt when you breathe!"


Monday, December 26, 2011

University of Maryland 1953

Facebook rocks!
Scot A. pposted this picture of his grandparents and father. I love the V for victory! So much more class than we are number one! But they were number one and I have Dumb Dumb Daddy-O's letter jacket to prove it. It has a Sugar Bowl National Champion patch on it.
Look at the joy on their faces. Mr A. looks awesome, he was twenty, strapping, handsome. Talk about the best of times.
I  asked my Dad what it was like winning all those bowl games and he said it was kinda like winning the war. But at the end of the games you knew the season was over and it was OK to celebrate. But after marrying your mother and having you children those things don't mean as much as you might think. It's who you choose to be right now that matters!

KUng Fu

Emma's first bath

I gave my daughter, C Kung Fu Panda 2 for Christmas. Big J said it was a great movie and that he always likes a good story with a moral. He wouldn't share what that moral was and said that would be up to me. So last night the Fruita Keith's had movie night and we loved it. I asked Chloe what she thought the moral of the story was and she said, "What really matters in life is what you are doing right now in the present and that the past and the future don't mean as much." OMG

I was thinking a little different about it, but realized she was clearer about what I was thinking than I was. I said, "Bamm, you are exactly right!"

I said I would apply it to my life by not beating myself up all the time about all the mistakes I've made and start enjoying all the things I've been doing right lately. Your past doesn't make who you are, you are what you are doing right now.

Right now I'm being Dumb dumb daddy-yO and enjoying it. Thank you God. Merry Christmas.

"You have to let all that stuff in the past go...What really matters is who you choose to be right now!" Po

Friday, December 23, 2011

J

Spent last weekend with my brother and mom and our kids in Denver. Big J's got new ink. Live every day...forearm, initials of his daughters, wrist and two memorial tats on his leg. One for Dad with a Md flag and one for our sister Karen who died from leukemia in 75...a dogwood flower. Friends of ours gave us a dogwood tree when she died. J went on to tell, "The Legend of the Dogwood" as written. From the wood box I knew this legend too.


Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Another Mouth to Feed

I am a new big daddy, Suzy is the big mommy, Chloe is the little mommy, Kayla and Mary are aunts and Tyler is little daddy or big brother. It has been a little crazy with a new baby in the house. Emma is a joy and a blessing and smart and an old soul and at 11weeks in possession of all our hearts. Welcome to the family Emma. Love always, DDD

Thursday, November 17, 2011

My Dad's 1921 Silver Dollar



I tought this was going to be a very merry Christmas this year when I saw that three of my Dad's silver coins from the wood box could fetch $29,000. I remeber thinking it's too good to be true. I thought even if I got a third, what would I do with an extra $10,000 this Christmas? I decide I would buy three computers for myself and my daughters so Suzy could have her's back. With the remainder I would fully finance the Key Think Foundation's disaster relief efforts and lauch the Tithe Loan Project for economic development through micro finance opportunity. This is going to be great!

So I see this “Road Show” advertisement for buying valuables. A couple of coins my Dad left me in the wood box were advertised for big money! A 1921 Silver Dollar for $5,000! I had two Indian Head Buffalo nickels for $12,000 each! Yahooo! I jumped in my car a drove to the Sheraton in Lakewood. I had a bunch of other coins I wanted appraised, ten Kennedy Silver Half Dollars pre 1969. Three old worn silver dimes from 1917 and the guy on the other side of the table lines them up on his little white board and snaps a picture. First thing we see here that none of these are graded or rated. None of these are mint quality or collector packaged.

He held up my Dad’s 1921 Silver Dollar and said this is a very common coin. I pulled out the advertisement and said then why is it valued at $5,000. He said that is the maximum value. It does have value he says. Let me do some calculations and see what I can give you. He starts plugging away at his calculator on his clip board for ten minutes. He says I can give you $28 for all of them and shoves the clip board in front of me and says sign here. I blew a fuse. I started to collect back my coins when he says hold on what were you hoping for? All I could say was not that! He said wait! I can call HQ and see what they can do. He jumps on the phone and he’s got me for another ten minutes. He hangs up the phone and with a big smile says they were very generous and have nearly doubled the offer and for $44 we’ll take the lot. Sign here and this offer is limited to today only. I said, “double of $28 is $56 no thank you.” Scooped up my Dad’s old coins and went home. What a knucklehead I am. I think what my Dad would have done in that situation. He wouldn’t have been as polite. He would have gotten really mad. My Dad did not suffer fools easily. On the long drive home I thought a lot about being a dumbdumbdaddyo and I held that 1921 Silver Dollar in my hand the whole way. I felt a closeness to my Dad I hadn’t felt in a long, long time. As I held it it warmed. I had a pocket full of silver from my Dad. Infinitely more valuable than $44, his jersey number was 44. It was his favorite number.  I was thankful I was more curious than desperate and could turn down the offer. My Dad was number 7 in baseball and 44 in football, his whole career. Every password or code my Dad ever used was 744. Those were my Dad’s numbers.

On the phone with my wife she said it was one of those if it’s too good to be true things!

I said it was one of those dumb dumb daddy-o things!

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Dumb Dumb Daddy-O: Soundtrack #1

Dumb Dumb Daddy-O: Soundtrack #1

My friend Thomas...

...was a fellow Viking Hurler back in high school. He is now on his thirteenth visit to the south pole. Here are some incredible pictures he's been sharing! Inspiring! He is my first follower. And my only follower not counting my wife and the little cartoon guy. God's speed Thomas.









Saturday, November 12, 2011

Letter from the grave.

This letter was written to be delivered to us kids if my parents did not return from one of their global travels. I think my dad wrote it before their trip to China as part of the Nixon envoy. First official American visit or something crazy like that. My Mom said everyone wanted to touch her hair. First blonde woman any of them had ever seen. She said your father at 6' 3" was a giant and you could see him in the crowd from blocks away.
Not so heart warming. Looks like I never listened very well. Ever. Nice, "do what they say better than you do for us" crack! I what, 2 or 3!


Letter 2